Sunday, January 28, 2007

The Sexual Discrepancy

Good day to you my avid reader, I hope you not are bored with my horrid recollections because it is what it is. Yet, if you really are, I want you think about this inquiry: "What are the problem with these puzzling men and what are the problems with these enigmatic women?" If you are really thinking, then that's good because your brain needs are workout once in a while right? These problems are what I will discuss in this reflection of mine. I expect you to take full attention in this deliberation between men and women or else you might break your neck in the process.

A man is defined as an individual that produces small usually motile gametes (as spermatozoa or spermatozoids) which fertilize the eggs of a female, whereas a woman is described as an individual that bears young or produces large usually immobile gametes (as eggs) that are fertilized by small, usually motile gametes of a male. The two genders are quite entirely different when it comes to sexuality but only one thing can make the two genders similar: their reproductive cells combine to form a human being, highest among all the animals in respect to intelligence. A being capable to think critically, to love deeply and to be loved sincerely. Yet, this is not the whole point isn't it? What I'm building here is that, we all are made but the joining of two cells from two entirely different sexualities and yet, we are all the same because we all think and we have been given the gift of logical reasoning. Still, I am very far from the point. So, may I continue then?

I am here to elaborate on the problem with men and women. First, I am to explain the problems with women. Women are social beings that tend to live on the past and relive the past too. Women search through gaps and holes from their mistakes from the past that in the end, they come to the point that they curse and blame themselves. In short, they dwell on the past. They tend to blame themselves when things go wrong, as opposed to blaming the world around then. And so, whenever they feel strongly about something they tend to worry about it a lot. Women are oftentimes insensitive because when they kid around, they sometimes forget that they are hurting the people around her. Women are quite vain, secretive and sometimes, men can't actually understand them because they are so mysterious and that is why men are sometimes blamed when couples break. I think it's not always men that are to be blamed of a destroyed relationship but also women. Enough of dilapidated relationships and let's delve in deeper. Strictly speaking, women sometimes are jealous and their jealousy always leads to huge consequences. May it be disputes among the wife and the "third party" and sometimes, murder because of extreme jealousy. According to my dad and I, from our experiences, women are naggers. They always contemplate on mistakes of the past, recent mistakes, and even foresee mistakes of the future and it really makes men irritated. It is also the nature of women to be so suspicious of the strange activities of their partners. Yet sometimes, it comes to a point that they become a nuisance and it makes men exasperated. Still, women are considered as treasures of men and men tend to keep them than let go of their considered "prized possessions". I think the quoted words can't be considered by some women because they are so prideful that they don't want to be treated as though they are owned by men.

Men, on the other hand, tend to forget past and keep their minds off the past and look forward to a more livelier tomorrow. I don't want to be so biased when it comes to men so I will be fair to it. Men tend to suppress their feelings that the problem with it is that they come to a point that they can't control their feelings and eventually they end up killing themselves or commiting suicide or they may hurone in the process. The problem with men is also that some of them are very jealous. In marriage, some of them lose their appetites that they are force to look for some which could "enhance" their appetite. That is the greatest problem with men. While some women are totally loyal to their husbands/partners, some men will really look for someone, may the reason be that they are tired of their partners, excessive lust or just for plain curiosity. Men are sometimes really egotistic because of the notion that men must keep their egos with dignity. Men are also more socially active in the sense that they gossip more than women. Generally, men are very vocal about themselves than women so they usually are the ones who spills the beans.

Today, men and women are treated equally by the people. They are viewed as different individuals wtih respect to gender but with equal differences. Men are considered the superior gender due to their masculinity or due to the fact that the men are the ones created first. Women, on the other hand, are supposed as the inferior type because of the fact that one of their ribs come from men. Or is it wrong? Anyways, that's what people now accept. I think this is the minute differences between genders that I had thought of. I suppose there are still a lot to discuss yet, these are the things that directly popped in my head. This is all for now. Monsieur Aronnax.



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